Wednesday 16 May 2012

Things Never to Say to a Woman…..



Here is a list of top 10 things to never tell a woman if you want to see her again.
#   “Have you gained weight recently?”Most women are very sensitive to weight problems and the constant bombardment of Waif-like models in popular culture does not make things very easy on them. So when you ask your partner if he has piled on some pounds, it is a sign to her that you care more about appearance than the person she really is, and as such, little can prevent more than one.  #   “So you work or just sit at home?”This is still a very sensitive issue, especially for someone who is between jobs or other family responsibilities. The implication that they are just “sitting at home” when it did not go to a full time job completely discounts the enormous investment of time and labor required to operate a home and care for people charge. And although she has a day job, how the question is worded, are more likely to raise ire of any self-respecting woman.
# “Your friend is very attractive.”
One of the worst verbal gaffes, you can do is to lavish praise on thinly veiled sex with another woman in front of your partner. Such a remark is one of the surest signs of a jerk who can not control his gaze wander even before a woman he is dating openly. So if you want to see this particular woman again, be careful to steer clear of this erroneous assessment.
   #  “My mother / SIS / friend has a lot, just like that …”
The safest way to a woman’s heart is to do or say anything that will make him feel unique because every woman secretly loves to think that it is more or less different from the crowd. On the other hand, if you come with a remark that cut down on his sense of style to a generalization and makes him feel that she is just one among a number of other women in your life, it is unlikely to seek enjoy your company again.
 #   “I think that the upgrade of an Audi this year – my Porsche seem so dated now.”
You may think that boast of your car, work or home would impress a woman with your material or professional success. But the truth is that most women associate with the vanity of such a class of men who have nothing to offer in a relationship. While there are some women who may be attracted by such obvious signs of material wealth, although they are more likely to be impressed when you can not boast of your prey in an interview.
 #   “For your age you look great.”
If there ever was a compliment of the left hand, it was one. While ostensibly praise the look of a woman, this remark, in fact reveals the speaker before the occupation of his age and especially reveal his underlying prejudice that connects beauty and attractiveness n ‘to a certain age. If you appreciate a woman looks like, omit any mention of the year while doing it.
   #  “What this guy is a loser.”
Be very careful to criticize male friends of the woman in front of her. Even if you can clearly see the guy trying to sneak into the love of your girlfriend or take unfair advantage because they were friends since high school, so try to keep your comments to yourself. If you can not express them aloud, your girlfriend, at best, would be disbelief at your trial, apparently hasty when you do not even know the guy, “or at worst brand you as” unsafe “just because her best friend to be a guy.
  #   “My ex was such a bitch.”
OK, so you try to make your daughter feel that she is the best thing that happened to you. But insults fills your ex is not the right way about it. For one thing your partner are sure to feel that you have not gotten over your ex then override your current relationship with a lot of emotional baggage from the past. Secondly, it is likely to get suspicious of your personality, because she sees in front of a guy who is easier to blame others for what goes wrong in his life, rather than taking any responsibility themselves.
   #  “What do you do?”
When you ask a woman out, it is assumed by the fact that you have a plan. Ask her what she would do when she was already sitting in your car can come as a disappointment, it is above all she was secretly expecting to be “surprised” by a sense of fun date or come with a romantic candlelit dinner . While you can expect her to be happy to stand for one night after he announced that he, like you are about to leave hints of indecision, lack confidence or simply boredom a regular guy.
   #  “Relax – there’s no reason to get emotional.”
This is actually the best way to get the opposite reaction you’ve asked your partner since the remark is sure to make him even more angry or more upset that she is now. But even if a woman’s emotions under control, the same consequences that it becomes more and nothing worked until she behaves irrationally, is enough to make any woman in cold blood in a walk anger.

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